That is why it often happens that in close emotional relationships we are accused of what we do not recognize and see in ourselves and why we often feel as if we are not well understood. The only problem is that we donвЂ™t really know what we are because we deny and suppress a large part of ourselves. as we really are and in which we can show what we really feel. We know that it is not wise to shout at co-workers and clients, to cry at work or on the street, and therefore grit our teeth and endure, until we get home, or in some other environment where we expect others to accept and love us. We will put our favorite mask on our face and play the chosen role for as long as we think is necessary. Photo by Christiana Rivers on UnsplashДЄnd when it is difficult for us, and when we are grumpy, sad, scared, worried or without optimism and self-confidence, we will usually not show it publicly.

The persona represents the part of us that we most often show in relationships with others in everyday life. Person is the public part of us, the one we love and see in ourselves, the one we consider good and valuable. In addition to this aspect within the personality, Jung defined the aspect he called opposite to him Person. We are not aware of our shadows as deeds of us, and every thought that it could be so fills us with negative feelings and a desire to defend ourselves from such accusations and to deny them. The name itself Shadow it just vividly describes our relationship to him. We perceive this part of the personality as dark, inadequate and we do not see it as a part of us, but as something that is outside of us, in the outside world. This term is related to the Swiss psychoanalyst Carl Gustav Jung, who saw in the personality of each of us an aspect he called Senkom and tied to him all those aspects of ours that we condemn, reject and do not accept in ourselves. Several terms are important for us to understand what is happening in partner relationships, and one very important one is called Shadow. It is most often heard that someone has changed, discovered a new face, become someone when we do not recognize and when we have not chosen him as such. The question arises as to how it is often easier for us with difficult clients or associates, awkward bosses and neighbors in relation to our own partners who we initially believed to be our ideal life companions. In life, we meet a lot of people who we did not choose for contact and communication, and somehow it will always be easier for us to deal with them, whatever they are, than with those we have chosen for a partnership, emotional relationship. It often happens that people face the biggest and most difficult problems in communication in partnerships. The mismatch between the way significant others see us, what we personally think of ourselves individually, and how we would like to be seen, often leads to problems in relationships.

Relationships with other people represent a kind of social mirror and the more important these others are to us, the more negative the image they reflect in the mirror, the more terrible and difficult it is to accept.

I am a shadow the true self